While recently talking to brides about their events, I have noticed that a lot of girls would like to incorporate a theme, but don't know how. What I suggest is choosing the theme first and then selecting complimentary colors second. That way your event looks polished and not cheesy. Another way to incorporate a theme is by adding it in small doses- not everything has to represent your theme as long as you love it. Below, I selected pictures that show off a butterfly theme for a wedding done in an elegant and tasteful way.